A Little Bit About Me
"Ladies I am not reading through all your profiles I do not have that patience or determination please put some pictures up its all I have to go off....stop trying to be sooo mysterious...men will skip you and you may be the perfect one."
So a friend of mine met his wife using this app, so here I am giving it a shot. I'm just a simple guy looking for a simple girl. I enjoy going to the gym and looking after my physique. I am a qualified personal trainer upto level 4.
I try to go to archery classes every sunday , I am part of a club and have my own equipment. Have participated in wrestling classes in the past all part of sunnah.
I have been told by a few I have a good sense of humour.
I have been striving to better myself in my deen. I pray, fast during ramadhan and always keep halal. Completed hajj in 2015.
I would say that I'm kind hearted, calm, loyal and respectful to all. I do aim to better myself everyday, I reflect on my actions through out the day how I could have done things differently or the correct way. I usually wake up at tahajjad to do dikhr and the time to myself, spiritually be at peace.
I understand my obligations as a husband according to the sunnah and what I expect from my partner.
I wear my heart on my sleeve what you see is what you get, I am a man of my word and will go to great extent sticking to it. I am very traditional but at any point culture conflicts with the teachings of islam I will dismiss it.
What I Am Looking For
Someone practicing who understands the religion and implements in every day life...i don't have a huge list this is the first and foremost thing I am looking for in a lady. Someone who has faith understands the correct way, I do not wish to bring my children up with a mix and match of culture and deen but have a clear understanding.
There's some amazing sisters out there but could we have realistic expectations.I am a simple straight forward individual with a big heart. You will be treated like a queen whats mine is yours. If you are interested please check with your parents if they would accept someone like me as I am punjabi as I have been rejected due to this. I do not believe in the caste system as it doesn't exist in islam. In the quran it states o mankind! We have created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know eachother. Not that ye may despise eachother.
Please remember above as to deny someone due to them being from a different tribe is haram and going against the quran which alot of families are doing.
Its not just how a person looks but what substance they have about them, I'd rather be able to hold a conversation with someone rather than just sit there having a pretty wife.
If you wear a hijab that would be amazing
There's alot of sisters out there that wish to get married but keep saying no to potentials. I understand how difficult it is for a woman to leave her maternal house and are scared fearful of what may come but if that fear is not conquered you will never move forward. Same as going to an exam, driving on the motorway for the first time, going to an interview and many other hurdles you face in life. The reward is tooo great to have completed half your deen, we say it so lightly but that is massive SubhanAllah why would anybody want to throw that away.
Fear itself is self doubt..self doubt is something that the Shaitaan promised...to mislead the people to the wrong path..steer them away from Allah. To the extent that another could even come to say does god exist?..astakfarAllah. Sorry am going off on one just wanted to share my thoughts. May we stay steadfast in our belief ameen. Don't let fear control you.
If I do like your profile and send you a message please reply if it's a yes or a no, manners go along way